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While spitting the game to woman, use her name, it's like music to their ears. For example "So, where are you from, Heather?" instead of "Where are you from?". This shows them that you are paying attention and that they are a person instead of an object. Make sure you get their name right though!
Never appear to be intimidated by a woman... even if you are. Beautiful women are used to men being intimidated by them and ONLY find the men who aren't to be attractive.
Never talk negatively about your life or your job. Women like ambition. Instead, talk about your future plans and how you expect to succeed. Then ask about her. Always ask her questions because women love to talk about themselves.
Ever wonder why you never leave a club with a woman you've just met? Women at clubs tend to be 100% more attracted to the men on the dance floor, even if they don't dance well or are less attractive than the men sitting/standing around. Learn to dance!
Never try to impress her by telling her about what you have or have done... you will come off as bragging and women hate that. Actions speak much louder than words.
Make as many women friends as possible, especially unattractive ones. They always have hot friends and if you don't already know, a woman's opinion of you will be greatly effected by what their friends say. Don't make anyone upset, you don't know who is there with who.
Never say "How about giving me your number?". Always use something like "I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you at?". This always produces much better results because she must aviod saying "no" or she will sound stupid because that will mean there is not a number she can be reached at. It also makes you more original than every other idiot that asks for her number.
Quit worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on listening. She will give you leads as to what she would like to talk about, in essence, telling you want to say next. For example: you say "How are you doing?" she says "I got a 50 cent raise today, but then I got a flat tire on my way home from work, so I guess I'm doing alright". She just gave you two leads that hint at what she is willing to talk about, all you've got to do is pick one. Don't start talking about your day, it will make her think you didn't hear her.
When going to a club or bar in search of women, bring a female friend instead of going with your boys. This will give everyone the idea that you are already taken, and men that are already taking are almost twice as appealing to women than single men. By the time you talk to a girl and she realizes that your actually not taken, the damage is already done, and her hightened opinion of you will remain. Being with a woman ahead of time makes you look desirable, and that is what you want right? To be desired.
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